When the Influence Network announced their first 1-day conference would be in Charlotte, almost local to me, I jumped at the opportunity. For four years I've watched #InfluenceConf be shared wishing we could've afforded the opportunity for me to join this community at the conference to celebrate and grow in their God-given influence. It was an answered prayer!
For friends not familiar with the Influence Network, it's a membership community exploring God-given influence right where we are. You can follow along for free with their social media as a point of encouragement, but I highly recommend becoming a member (more on this in a future post!).
Today I'm sharing my personal takeaway from the overall conference message along with quotes and scripture references. I'm getting vulnerable with my reflections in this post for a few reasons. First, the message is one we all need. Second, I always wanted in on more details of the conference. So, this is for the sister who wanted to be there but couldn't! Last, I want to open the conversation on these topics for our #heartinthehustle community.
Speaker topics and scripture focus varied throughout the 1-day conference, but sweetly woven into the fabric of the day was the message of God's rich grace and power in these areas: our vulnerability, our influence and our testimonies.
I'm excited to continue to the conversation post-conference! Now onto conference lessons!
Vulnerability is the new black.
If you’re looking for 2016's buzz word this is it: vulnerability. I’ve never delighted and feared a word so much! For months I’ve been peeling back what it means to get vulnerable in our stories and our daily routines through Brene Brown’s Living Brave Semester, and the Influence ladies brought a good word and affirmed what I've uncovered on the topic.
Vulnerability is not weakness, it's courage. It's free-falling into the arms of our Savior trusting that as we show up only armed in His truth goodness will flow and Kingdom seeds will be planted. We delete the lie of the enemy with the truth of the Gospel as we show up and allow ourselves to be seen as daughters of the King: chosen, redeemed, remembered, and able.
Scripture References: 2 Chronicles 20, Deuteronomy 6:10-15, Psalm 23, Romans 11:36
Your story matters, and so does hers.
Our influence is void of impact without our testimony. It’s going to take vulnerability to show up with our messy hearts and let our testimony influence others. The pretty stories and styled squares of social media are only surface level. If we’re going to know the joy of the Lord deep in our bones we need to step out of the shadow of doubt into the light of love with all of our mess.
Vulnerability + Wolehearted testimonies = Influence for the glory of the Lord
I think it’s that simple. Jesus finished the work and that changes everything. When we look to Jesus’ life we see him fully embrace his purpose, and little by little it influenced others and ultimately pointed back to the Father. Isn’t that what want? Time and time again Jesus emptied himself for others in humbleness with great empathy towards their stories.
Jesus knew our stories would be just as influential for the Kingdom as his. Let's take off the fleshly armor of worry and comparison to speak eternal truths over one another. My story matters for the Kingdom, and so does yours. Let’s link arms, enter into the mess together and build for the Kingdom.
Scripture Reference: Philippians 2, Luke 7, 2 Corinthians 8:12, 2 Timothy 1:12, Revelation 12:11
Your have influence right where you are.
We can shift the focus off of potential future influence and onto our surroundings right where we stand. Influence happens here in our everyday hustle. Instead of harping on interruptions we must simply open our eyes to God's opportunities. Our hearts become enabled to see God and to share our testimony of His grace as we allow others to interrupt our agendas. Let's inspect our hearts, what opportunities have we brushed off as interruptions?
Gretchen sweetly reminded us there’s no measuring stick in the Kingdom. This message was layered throughout the conference. Whatever your season it is good and it is for His glory that we lean into our God-given influence. Tending to littles with piles of laundry, car-pool lines and time-outs. Launching a business, blog or book. Showing up to your 9-5. Serving at your local church. Getting your mail. Going to class. Swinging by the supermarket. We have influence right where we are in Jesus name.
Scripture Reference: Matthew 27:51, 1 Corinthians 3:16, Hebrews 10: 19-25
It has taken me over a week to process the message from the 1-day Influence Conference, and I'm sure to reference this post frequently in the coming weeks. The 1-day event was special time of fellowship, and the overflow of community can be felt so sweetly. If you attended the conference I’d love for you to chime in below, or if you missed out let’s keep the conference conversation going here!